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Sunday, 11 September 2011

  • Where were you?

    Three simple words, Where were you? When our grandparents were asked this they would talk about the attacks on Pearl Harbor. Our parents would here those words and instantly think of Kennedy. But our generation? You can ask anyone older than say 18 today "Where were you?" and they will talk about Sept. 11, 2001.


    I had just dropped my daughter at day care and was clocking in at work when my wife called my cell phone to tell me about the first plane hitting. My first thought was that it was a a freak accident, like when the Empire State building had been hit in the 1930's. I talked to her for a few minutes, told her I loved her and went about my day. Found out that the owner of the business was on the road to Norther Jersey for a furniture auction. I got in the car and drove to our remote location. As I was pulling up my wife called again to say that a second plane had hit the other tower. WTF? was my answer. Simple, succinct. Got into the building and logged into CNN.com. So much confusion there and everywhere. I was on the phone almost non-stop with my wife at that point as she kept me up to date. As the first reports came in of the plane hitting I could hear her getting more upset. There were rumors that the Governor had declared a state of emergency. That the airbase across from our remote location had gone on alert. That a plane was headed for the White House. That the Air Force had shot down a plane. In the middle of all this, my friend Seth call to say his car broke down and could he get a lift. He doesn't know what was going on, or had heard only the basics. He just knew the mall was closing at Noon and he needed to get home. Because of where the company owner was travelling we could not get a hold of him by cell phone so I made the decision (as did someone at our other location) that we all needed to go home. Headed home there was almost a palpable pall as I drove through town. It was weirdly silent. My wife went and picked up our daughter then Seth and took them both to our apartment. I got home about the same time. The rest of the day was spent with the TV on, watching everything going on. My mother and Burke stopped by later and wound up staying until late in the night. It was amazing, every single channel was carrying coverage of what had happened, there was NO regular programming anywhere. For that day the country stopped and seemed to breathe as one. None of us could take our eyes away.

    Three simple words. Where were you? Yet the depth of emotion they bring up is incredible. Sorrow, hurt, rage, anger, thirsts for revenge. You name it and it exists. I vividly remember looking at my Mother, a self-avowed pacifist, and hearing her say 'I hope they find who set this up and kill them. Kill their families, destroy their countries. That is the only way to prevent this from happening again.' And even worse, I completely agredd, as did everyone in the room. I remember my 1 1/2 year old daughter asking 'Daddy, who knocked down the buildings?' Choked up, all I could answer was 'some bad men'. She just said, 'They are going to get a big time out, aren't they?' I just hugged her and said 'Yes'. She was worried why all of us were so upset, that she had done something wrong. So as they are showing recovery efforts on TV, replaying the planes hitting, watching the dust clouds spew from New York, the flames play across the Pentagon, my wife, my Mother, two friends and I are all on the floor playing with a 1 1/2 year old, tickling her and getting her to laugh. It worked to. Not just for her, but for us. It let us know that life goes on. That the next day I would have to get up and go to work. That my daughter would go to day care. That in 10 years she would not remember any of this. That it was our job to discuss it with our children. They may not remember it happening, but they can't ever forget either. One of my greatest hopes is that they will ask my son or my daughters 'Where were you?' in 20 years and they will just look at the person asking funny and ask when. Because nothing has happened to etch those three words indelibly into their psyche.

    So share with me and all three of my readers. Where were you?

    Addition: Maybe I have a different perspective, at least in some ways. I work across the street from Dover Air Force Base, the location of the largest military mortuary on the East Coast (possibly in the world, not sure). For several days following the attacks there was a stream of Army helicopters passing overhead, carrying victims from the Pentagon attack to be identified. They literally flew right over our building as they came in for a landing on base. There were only three of us here at the time, we were a remote location. Every time we heard the rotors we would all walk outside and quietly watch. It wasn't planned, it just happened.

     

     

    EDIT: This is from three years ago now. I am reposting to get more peoples input. Enjoy.

  • 9-11 And Me

    If you have read my blog for any amount of time you will have seen my "Where was I" and the comments filled with your stories (I really should go timestamp it to today but everyone else has it covered so I'm good I think). What I have talked about was my reaction.

    First, a little history about me. I was raised an Army brat. There is a distinct chance that by the age of 15 I had lived more places, been more places, seen more things, spoken (badly usually) more languages and experienced more than many will in their lifetime. I don't say this to brag because in a lot of ways it was a horrible way to grow up, but that's a post for another time. Our first time in Germany (1974-1978) was two years after the terrorist attack at the Munich Olympics. To be fair I remember very little from this time but I remember the almost overwhelming sense of security. Our second time in Germany was 1984-1987. In case you don't know that was the height of the 1980's terrorist attacks on Americans, soldiers and civilians. These are the years of the Frankfurt Airport bombing, the Berlin Disco bombing, the Rhein-Main Air Force Base attack (bombs and guns), the Rome and Vienna airport attacks to name several of the more infamous. These were the years of the Red Army Faction, Hezbollah, the Japanese Red Army along with state backed terrorists (primarily the Soviet Union, Iran and Libya). Terrorism is something that most people saw on television, the nightly news covered the bombs and then told a happy story about a cat that made it 100 miles to find it's owner.

    For all of us overseas, especially in Europe, at this time this wasn't some abstract threat, it was a way of life. We lived with threats daily. Several Christmases we couldn't even have wrapped gifts to give to our friends because ALL packages had to be opened and searched before being allowed onto base or into housing. It was just the way it was. We didn't bemoan our fate, we didn't freak out about things, we kept going. We were teens, we adapted. When our parent had to go downstairs and start the car and we waited upstairs in case it exploded we didn't really think of it. When our high school had a machine gun in a sandbag bunker at the entrance to the driveway it wasn't abnormal. Military Police armed with assault rifles wandering the halls of our high school and riding the school buses? Being picked up by the MPs and driven home because you were walking downtown and there has been another threat against dependents isn't anything to get worked up about (except when the neighbor kids go running upstairs to tell your Mom the police just brought you home). Well of course, it's just common sense. This was our life.

    In June of 1987 I came back to the States and I was, in a word, stunned. The local airbase was virtually open, they barely checked ID's. My high school (for my last two years) had no ID checks or guards of any sort. People weren't aware of their surroundings, they couldn't tell you instantly where all of the exits out of a building were or if that backpack sitting over there had been there for any amount of time. Hypervigilant is a good word to describe me and (I think) all of us that had been overseas at this time.

    On September 11th, 2001, the naivete of the United States was lost. A couple of days later I was talking to a friend I had known in Germany and he had the exact same reaction that I did. Yes we were angry, yes we were hurt but even more we were stunned it had taken this long for terrorism to come to our shores. The complete lack of security anywhere made an attack not just likely but expected, at least by those of us that have lived it before.

    Now that innocence is gone. We as a nation realize we need to be vigilant. We need to be aware of what is around us. And it seems to be working. Did we go too far in some regards (cough Patriot act cough)? Yes, but it's natural to react to strongly to something that surprises you. Too bad they didn't ask us that had been through it before.

Wednesday, 27 July 2011

  • But He Wasn't A Real Christian!!!

    Dammit, every time I think I am out the pull me back in. I can't get out, they know they have me for life.

     

    Yeah, I am back and writing. Why? Because I'm pissed off again.

     

    Last Friday the world saw a horrific attack in Norway not just against the government (in the form of a bomb in Oslo) but also in the the shooting and killing of 69 children at a youth camp (based on the most recent revised number of 7 dead in the bombing and 76 dead total). The perpetrator is Anders Behring Brievik, a self identified anti-Muslim, fundamentalist Christian, Conservative right wing person. He has stated that the attacks were a wake up call to Norway and Europe as a whole to abandon it's liberal acceptance of multiple cultures, to end immigration and to end the threat of Islam taking over. These are the terrorist's own words in his own defense.

    But hold on, people are already saying "this was political" and "he wasn't a real Christian". Go read this, be amused. He couldn't have been a Christian since Christians are told never to kill. Funny, this documentary shows CHILDREN being prepared to fight, KILL and die for Jesus and Christianity. Christianity is heavily steeped in fighting for 'the cause'. Are we already forgetting Ireland through the late 19th and most of the 20th century? Two different sects of Christians trying to kill each other off? But none of them were REAL Christians either.

    By the reasoning listed above the September 11th attacker's weren't Muslims, after all, the attacks weren't about Islam, they were about U.S. policy in Israel (their poor understanding of Islam just sanctioned the attacks, much like Brievik's and Timothy McVeigh's poor understanding of Christianity sanctioned their attacks). Nearly all terrorism is political, though much of it has religious undertones. Terrorism is used to attempt to change policy or the government itself, the very definition of political motivation.

    Let's deal with facts, he was a right wing Christian asshole that decided he wasn't being heard so the world needed a wake up call. The September 11th attackers were Muslim assholes that decided the world needed a wake up call. No difference at all. The mainstream sects of both religions will repudiate the actions of the terrorists, but the truth is the truth.

     

    And if I decide the world needs a wake up call the news can talk about the Atheist terrorist and other Atheists can run out and yell "He's not a real Atheist (he secretly believed in Allah, God, Yahweh, Buddha, Jawas, the Flying Spaghetti Monster, whatever) though if I decide the world needs a wake up call I am taking the entire planet with me so there won't be much to discuss.

     

     

Thursday, 23 June 2011

  • You Drink. You Drive. You Die. Jackass

    A man whose only claim to fame (as far as I can tell anyway) was shoving a toy car up his ass on film drinks and drives and kills himself along with his passenger and I am supposed to feel bad? I feel bad for his family, I feel bad for his passenger's family but no, I don't feel sorry for the damn fool.

    As always, the link to the story

     

    Should I feel sorry that he was an idiot and lived up to his name of Jackass?

     

Saturday, 18 June 2011

  • Your good thoughts/prayers/etc are needed ASAP

    This isn't about me, this is about my best friend Slade. I was his best man at his wedding in December and I can truly say he is one of, if not, the best man a person can know. He is like family to me, as is his beautiful wife and wonderful son.

     

    Three weeks ago today (Memorial Day weekend) Slade found out his son has leukemia. His beautiful, vibrant, smart, funny son is sick. Very sick. The good news is that the chemo is kicking leukemia's ass, the bad news is that the side effects are starting to strike back and cause massive problems.

     

    Today starts the fourth week of the family's struggles against cancer. I ask that you go here, read that blog and the two newer ones and send Slade your thoughts and prayers. He needs them, all of them do.

     

    BTW: Comments are turned off for this one, if you want to comment go say something to Slade.

     

    I love you brother!

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